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Baldur's Gate 3: Full Romance Walkthrough

by Carter Apr 04,2025

Baldur's Gate 3 offers a rich tapestry of romance options, enhancing the game's immersive experience. Whether you're seeking a deep, long-term connection or a fleeting encounter, the game caters to a variety of romantic preferences. This guide provides a comprehensive walkthrough for each romance option, ensuring you don't miss out on any potential relationships.

All Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

### Romance in BG3 Explained:

In Baldur's Gate 3, romance is inclusive, allowing every character to be romanced regardless of your character's sex. The game offers both short-term and long-term romance options, tailored to the unique personalities and storylines of each character. Some characters are open to one-night stands, while others require a more prolonged courtship. Be mindful that certain actions can lock you out of multiple romance paths, and maintaining exclusivity might be necessary for some relationships. Not all romance options can be experienced in a single playthrough, as each companion offers a distinct romantic journey.

All Romance Options:

The following companion characters can be romanced in Baldur's Gate 3:

Shadowheart
Gale
Astarion
Karlach
Wyll
Lae'zel
Halsin
Minthara

For short-term romance, the following non-companion characters are available:

Mizora
Guardian/Emperor
Drow Twins
Haarlep
Naoise Nallinto

How to Romance Shadowheart in Baldur's Gate 3

Shadowheart is often the first companion you'll encounter, making her a prominent romance option. Her journey intertwines deeply with the game's plot, adding layers to your experience. To romance Shadowheart, focus on building her approval through kindness, non-violence, and respecting her privacy. Early on, siding with her against Lae'zel can significantly boost her approval. In Act I, look for the "...missed a chance to connect" dialogue or engage with her during the camp party. Choose to share a bottle and spend the evening with her, leading to a romantic walk and a kiss. In Act II, support her regardless of her choice between Selune and Shar. In Act III, complete her quest and engage in the final romantic scene during a swim.

Shadowheart Romance Special Notes:

Shadowheart may end the relationship if you pursue other romances, though this isn't always the case. In Honor Mode, it's best to remain exclusive to avoid complications.

How to Romance Gale in Baldur's Gate 3

Gale, the wizard from Waterdeep, is another character whose romance can significantly impact the game's narrative. To romance Gale, rescue him from the portal and comply with his requests to consume magical items. In Act I, join him for a magic lesson and choose romantic dialogue options. Before transitioning to Act II, support him during the Elminster cutscene. In Act III, keep him alive, read "The Annals of Karsus," and engage in the final romance scene by choosing the right dialogue options.

Gale Romance Special Notes:

Gale is not open to an 'open relationship' and will be unhappy if you romance other characters.

How to Romance Astarion in Baldur's Gate 3

Astarion's charm and wit make him a popular choice for romance. To romance him, prioritize self-serving actions and sarcasm, as he disapproves of altruism. Allow him to drink your blood to boost your relationship. During the party, engage with him and choose dialogue options that lead to a romantic scene. In Act II, take Raphael's deal to learn more about his scars, and in Act III, complete his quest to unlock the final romantic scenes.

Astarion Romance Special Notes:

Astarion is the most open-minded long-term partner, tolerating other romantic encounters.

How to Romance Karlach in Baldur's Gate 3

Karlach's romance is rewarding but requires careful handling. Initially, side with her against the fake Paladins of Tyr and collect Infernal Iron to help her with her heart. During the party, express your feelings and find a way to kiss her by cooling her off with water. In Act II, continue to help her with Infernal Iron, and in Act III, take her on a date.

Karlach Romance Special Notes:

Karlach is sensitive about infidelity and may end the relationship if you sleep with others. After fixing her heart, you can enter a long-term relationship with unique dialogue options.

How to Romance Wyll in Baldur's Gate 3

Wyll's romance enhances his storyline, focusing on heroism and support. Build his approval by acting heroically, helping others, and supporting him in his quests. Rescue Halsin and the Tieflings to spend the night with him during the party. In Act II, engage in a romantic dance, and in Act III, help him save his father and complete his task with the dragon Ansur.

How to Romance Lae'zel in Baldur's Gate 3

Lae'zel's romance can be short-term or long-term, depending on your actions. Raise her approval by acting decisively and favoring combat over diplomacy. In camp, mention her interest in you to initiate a one-night stand. In Act II, duel her to win her heart, and in Act III, support her choice between Vlaakith and Orpheus.

Lae'zel Romance Special Notes:

Lae'zel will end the relationship if you cheat on her after the duel.

How to Romance Halsin in Baldur's Gate 3

Halsin's romance requires completing his quests before the end of Act II. Rescue him from the Goblin Camp, help him locate Thaniel, and keep him in your party. Build his approval through kindness, reverence for nature, and fairness. Once his approval is high enough, he will visit you at night and ask about other relationships.

How to Romance Minthara in Baldur's Gate 3

Romancing Minthara involves an evil playthrough, betraying your party and the Emerald Grove. Side with her at the Goblin Camp, defeat the grove, and express your loyalty to her. At the goblin party, tell her you are hers, and she will join you in bed. Note that some players claim you can knock her out and rescue her later, but this has not been confirmed.

Minthara Romance Special Notes:

Choosing the evil path will drastically alter your game experience, causing tension with other party members.

All One-Off Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

### How to Romance Mizora:

Ensure Wyll is in your party, rescue Mizora from the Mind Flayer Colony, and speak to her before Gortash's coronation. When she visits your camp, engage in the romantic dialogue to trigger the scene.

How to Romance the Guardian:

Protect the Guardian/Emperor between Acts II and III, evolve into Half-Ilithid, learn about their past lover, and engage in romantic dialogue during their visits.

How to Romance the Drow Twins:

Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing, speak to Mamzell Amira, and either complete a quest or pay directly to access the twins' chambers.

How to Romance Haarlep in the House of Hope:

Reach the House of Hope, cross the Mystic Force Curtain, and engage with Haarlep in the Boudoir. Be aware of potential consequences if you're in a relationship.

How to Romance Naoise Nallinto:

Visit Sharess' Caress, unlock the door marked by a green lantern, defeat the Mindflayer, and engage in a romantic encounter with Naoise for a brief scene and the Rapture buff.

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